Dr.J (S.L. Jordan, Ph.D.,Ed.D.)
Nov 18, 2023 11:00 AM
Today, let us explore the transformative power of forgiveness, integrating the teachings of John C. Maxwell from "Thinking for a Change" and the wisdom of the scriptures. Ephesians 4:32 (NIV) guides us: "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Forgiveness, as Hannah Arendt says, is "the key to action and freedom." This concept is pivotal in our spiritual journey and is deeply intertwined with the principles of successful living as outlined by Maxwell. Highly successful people understand that embracing change is essential, and this is particularly true in the realm of forgiveness. Forgiveness in the face of betrayal or hurt is a challenge, yet it is a vital step towards personal growth and success. When we confront difficulties in forgiving others, we are faced with an opportunity to embody Maxwell's principles - to think differently, to embrace change, and to act decisively. It is in these moments of struggle that the importance of "thinking for a change" becomes most apparent. Dr. J aptly quotes, "If we’re going to be different, we must do things differently." This philosophy echoes in Jesus' teachings. In John 5:1–15, Jesus heals a man at the Pool of Bethesda and advises him against sinning, highlighting the link between spiritual wellness and transformation. Similarly, in the story of the woman caught in adultery (John 8:3–11), Jesus offers forgiveness along with a call to "sin no more." These instances emphasize the need for a change in mindset and behavior for a truly transformative life. The path to "sin no more," as advocated by Jesus, is not about achieving perfection but about a continuous effort towards holiness and transformation, aligning with God’s desire for us. This aligns with Maxwell's view that successful people continuously adapt and evolve. When we stumble, seeking forgiveness and embracing God's discipline helps mold us in His image (Hebrews 12:6–11). As we reflect on Mark Twain's words, "Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it," let us remember that through forgiveness, we find not only freedom but also the opportunity for profound change in our hearts, minds, and souls. This journey of transformation through Christ enables us to approach life and work with a new perspective, embodying the principles of highly successful people and leading us to a path of greater fulfillment and purpose. Maxwell, J. C. (2003). *Thinking for a Change: 11 Ways Highly Successful People Approach Life and Work*. Warner Business Books.